A Simple Mental-Game Routine for Junior Golfers

By Jacob Williams · June 17, 2022

Junior golfers do not need complicated motivational speeches between shots. They need a short routine that helps them make a decision, commit, and move forward after the result.

Mental-game coaching cannot guarantee lower scores, and it is not a substitute for qualified mental-health care. On the golf course, its practical role is to help a player direct attention toward the next useful action.

Use a three-step pre-shot routine

Keep the sequence short enough to repeat in practice and competition:

1. Choose: Select the target, club, and intended shot.
2. Rehearse: Make one purposeful practice motion or picture the shot from behind the ball.
3. Commit: Step in, aim the clubface, take one final look, and swing.

The exact routine can be personal. The important part is returning to the same clear sequence without delaying play.

Reset after a poor shot

A mistake does not need to become the theme of the next hole. Try this reset:

1. Name the result without exaggerating it: “That started right.”
2. Take one slow breath.
3. Identify one useful note, if there is one.
4. Shift attention to the next target and decision.

The player does not have to pretend the shot was good. The goal is to avoid carrying one result into the next routine.

Set process goals

Score matters, but it is not fully controllable. A process goal gives the junior something specific to do on every hole.

Examples include:

• Choose a target before every full swing
• Use the complete routine on every tee shot
• Stay ready when it is your turn
• Accept the first reaction, then reset
• Track solid contact instead of only total score

Choose one process goal for a round. Too many instructions create another distraction.

Practice the mental skill, too

On the range, change clubs and targets instead of repeating the same shot without consequence. Give each ball a beginning and end: choose, rehearse, commit, observe, reset.

For a simple pressure game, pick a fairway between two range targets and try to place three of five shots inside it. Use the full routine for every ball. The result matters enough to create focus, but the exercise remains small and repeatable.

What parents can say

Helpful post-round questions include:

• What was your best decision today?
• When did your routine work well?
• What did you learn?
• What would you like to practice next?

Avoid giving a swing lesson immediately after an emotional round. Calm curiosity leaves more room for the player to reflect and take ownership.

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Sources

• PGA of America: Establishing a Strong Pre-Shot Routine
• PGA of America: Parent's Guide to Building a Plan and Setting Goals
• First Tee: How to Watch Your Child Play Without Adding Pressure

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